Jammu : Two Wheeler’s…A Gift of Death for the Youth, What is Role of Parent’s in this ?
We as countrymen are sitting at a very sad stake of life along with all the other goodness which cannot be ignored.
Talking about the youth of the nation it is very unfortunate that they have no desire of valuing the most beautiful gift of the God that is “life”. They are consistently playing with their lives in one way or another, letting down all those people who are associated with them.
They do not understand the fact that they have mothers because they exist, they have fathers because they themselves have a life, they are able to share and cherish memories with their siblings because they happen to live with them.
The youth is so carried away by the thrills and charms of the materialistic world that they have totally forgotten the concerns of reality.
Talking about Jammu, like the youth of other cities which have completely misunderstood the concept of westernization and are practicing it in the wrong way, Jammu as well is following the herd.
However, westernization doesn’t mean being cruel to anyone or to yourself. It doesn’t mean to misuse the liberty. It doesn’t mean not valuing what you have.
Of course growth has no end, but growing doesn’t mean ruining what you can save! Westernization teaches us the concept of being self made, not self destruction. What we consider westernization is mere stupidity. What we find cool is mere insanity.
One of the newest ways of playing with their own lives is bike riding. They Ride in a way that assures a sad death. They find immense pleasure in the thrill that harsh riding prevails but they certainly do not care about how bad the consequences can possibly be.
This concept of bike riding in itself is a gift of death for the impatient and over energetic youth. They are considerably losing their lives in crashes and accidents. Forcing parents to buy them two-wheelers has become a norm nowadays.
They would go to any extent to get their wish fulfilled. They would stoop down on their knees to convince their parents for what they desire, no matter what the cost of it they might have to pay at the end! What actually is to be considered as a matter of concern is that these young men would even threaten them in the weirdest manner in order to make sure that they attain their wants.
And when this desire takes up a bad face, what they call “passion” and actually is a bet of life, it certainly ends up taking lives of young youth.
As far as Jammu is concerned according the data that we have received, the analysis says in past 1 month _______ people died because of bike crashes and accidents and out of this ______ were of 18-20 years.
It is very hard to make out whom to put this blame on. It is hard to blame just the parents who at times zealously over pamper their kids and loose grip on them.
We cannot just blame the youth because they at times are over enthusiastic and do not have a wider vision of the consequences because of their age.
With time experiences suppresses their immature behavior and unveils the reality of life which is not seen by them in their youth as their eyes are clouded and vision is blurred because of the temporary beauty of materials.
But what can be done is reaching out people, reaching out the youth, reaching out the parents, reaching out the people who can guide them all through this, people who can guide the ones who are lost, following a fragrance which is not even going to stay with them forever.
They need to know that the beauty that they are trying to chase is nowhere but within them. It is very important to help them become responsible and civilized citizens.
They ought to discover the importance of their lives and know what blunder it will create if they lose it. What havoc it will bring in the lives of people who love them.
They need to understand how beautiful life is! This is quite obvious that one who lives has to die one day, but there is no point inviting death to take you away in the ugliest way.
Over speeding might give u chills and thrills but it will not end for very long. Youth is considered to be the future of any society. But they need to understand their role and importance of existence.
A man who loves himself takes the first step towards happiness. It is like throwing a pebble into a silent lake: at first circular ripple will arise around the pebble very close to pebble, naturally, where else can they arise? And then they will go on spreading; they will reach the farthest shore.
They need to say no to over speeding of their two wheelers and ride them keeping in mind all they safety measures because what they think is cool is probably the most dangerous thing.
And parents should for sure teach them how to bear rejections.